Getting Into the Right Mindset This Fall

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The holiday season is quickly approaching, and buckle up, it’s going to go by fast!

How do you feel about the upcoming temptations that surround us this time of year? I hope you’re excited!

All of the celebrating can be so fun, but do you dread the possibility of weight gain during the winter? Do you have a history of overdoing it and then later regretting it? Who hasn’t?

It doesn’t have to be that way. You can manage your mind around food any time of year and during any holiday, and that doesn’t mean that you have to skip all the goodies and treats.

There are so many strategies you can use that allow you to still have a good time and not spin in regret afterwards.

It’s all about getting your mindset right beforehand, and learning the skills to stay empowered through the holiday season.

I like to remind myself, it’s typically not the holiday celebration that’s the problem, it’s often letting the rich foods or desserts linger too long. Who doesn’t love Thanksgiving leftovers? But choosing to finish ALL the desserts and decadent side dishes over several days, and telling yourself you can’t let it go to waste? Maybe not such a good idea if you have a health goal that is truly important to you.

You get to pick and choose your battles, but choosing to make some decisions ahead of time can help you identify areas that might be tripping you up. It’s could be just a couple of areas that with a slight tweak, could make a world of difference.

Some ideas in addition to letting go off too many leftovers could be:

  • Choosing to eating some protein before heading off to party
  • Making the effort to stay hydrated at events
  • Incorporating some newer healthier ideas for appetizers along with old favorites
  • Making time for exercise each day even when tempted to skip due to the cold or your schedule, guarding your time for self-care
  • Consider fun holiday mocktails when possible
  • Choose bite-sized sampler route and slowing down to savor your food  

If the thought of spending January or February trying to undo weight gain experienced over the holidays is not your cup of tea, let me know and I can provide you with tools and accountability to help you stay focused these next few months. It’s delivered straight to your inbox to help your keep your mindset sharp and motivation high, all with zero judgement allowed, only proven strategies.

By keeping your head in the game, I promise you can still enjoy the celebrations and make progress at the same time!

Karen

Back to School, Back to Wellness

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With the kids settled into school and their new routines, what about your routine? Now is a great time to carve out a little extra time for taking better care of yourself.

Many of us are also feeling the shift from warmer temperatures to crisper mornings and evenings, my daughter said it even smells like fall! These cooler temps are making evening walks much more enjoyable, we need to soak up this weather while it lasts!

What’s an activity you are looking to reconnect with that will nourish a health body or healthy mind?

I find with the change of seasons I look forward to favorite recipes that align with the season. Right now, I can’t wait to make my turkey chili, low carb pumpkin muffins, and paleo applesauce muffins.

I get a burst of enthusiasm and I channel that into getting back into food prepping. I have never really enjoyed the long food prepping sessions where I spend all day in kitchen, but I am ok with shorter food prep sessions, sneaking in 15 or 20 minutes here and there.

I have a short list of lean proteins and snacks that I do think are worth the time to prepare. For example, grilling out on Sunday nights by the firepit is a common occurrence for us, so why not throw on extra chicken to use throughout the week?

Another time that works for me is when I wake up earlier than the rest of the family, and while I enjoy my coffee, I mix up a batch of either low-carb muffins, hard boil some eggs, or roll up some energy balls.

What are you looking forward to this fall? Reach out if you want me to share those recipe favorites, I will email them to you!

Happy Fall!

How To Refresh & Renew Your Motivation

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Spring has arrived! How is your motivation this time of year? The spring weather often lifts our spirits and makes it easier to get out there and enjoy more time in nature and move our bodies.

But for anyone who’s struggling to keep up those new healthy habits or resolutions that sounded so great in January 🤩, but not so much anymore 😞 , try these ideas.

First, let’s define the problem. It’s essential that we define the true problem and don’t just say we’ve “lost our motivation” and throw in the towel. Below are some of the usual suspects:

  • Are the changes you’re trying to make too drastic? Are you trying to give up something completely? Or, at the other end of the spectrum, are you trying to do too much, such as working out intensely every day? If what you’re doing is too hard to keep up, you will need to scale back a bit. I know we all want results yesterday, but it’s going to take time to adjust. Experimenting with the right amount of sustainable change is an investment in time, but will yield longer term results.
  • Are you bored and just need to mix it up a bit? When you start to feel like you’re in a rut and your excitement has waned, it’s time to get creative. Tired of drinking your water? Try fruit infused versions by adding strawberries or cucumber. Do you just keep forgetting to stop and drink more throughout the day? What’s the real problem related to that? Is it inconvenient and you would be better off downing a couple of glasses at a time? Is it your cup? Again, defining the real problem is key.
  • Do you need an accountability partner? Having a friend or a coach 😉 for support can be priceless. You don’t have to do it all on your own.
  • Most importantly, are we expecting to feel motivated all of the time? Do we think something has gone wrong when our excitement fades? I can assure you nothing has gone wrong. Keeping at it until the habit has us on autopilot is the ultimate reward, so don’t give up even when it starts to feel dull. Your motivation will return, especially as your momentum builds.

Your mindset is the most important factor in dealing with motivational slumps, and we all have them. Setbacks are inevitable. Your feelings of commitment may rise and fall, but how you choose to view the ups and downs has everything to do with your success in the end, and that’s how I can help.

Coaching gets you back into a motivational headspace and refreshes your perspectives on the next steps to take to get right back to it.

Reach out if this sounds like it would help you! You can sign up HERE for a free call.

January or No-fun-uary?

January doesn't have to mean No-fun-ary

So how’s 2024 going so far for you? Did you set any new goals? Or recommit to some old ones?
Or maybe you’re just not up for resolutions at all (I totally get it).

But, if you are trying to eat healthier and move your body more, you’re in good company! About 48% of Americans set goals related to improving fitness, and about 34% cited goals regarding losing weight, according to Forbes magazine.

How these Americans will approach weight loss will be as unique and varied as the individuals themselves.

What I do hope they all have in common, though, is that they are motivated by a sense of renewal and not restriction.

If our mindset is on restriction, it will probably feel like this:

  • Being hyperfocused on the number on the scale
  • Living in regret for enjoying yourself just a little too much during the holidays
  • Wishing you hadn’t skipped those days at the gym or put off walking/exercising
  • January feels like ‘No-fun-uary’ because you’re cutting out everything fun and feeling guilt over any ‘misstep’ you might make here and there

If our mindset is on renewal, it feels A LOT different, more like:

  • Excitement over returning to your favorite form of exercise
  • Looking forward to simple delicious meals after the more decadent meals you enjoyed at the holidays
  • Enjoying some extra downtime and the slower pace January can bring after the buzz of the holidays
  • Feeling like the new year is a clean slate, full of possibilities

When you approach your health goals from a renewal mindset, it feels good to take care of yourself. January offers us a time to reset, recharge, and reflect on what might have worked in the past and/or what didn’t.

If you could use some help with shifting your frame of mind from restriction to renewal, I can help you with that. I have a turnkey 6 week online program that will guide you every step of the way and provides daily support.

It’s a great way to instantly refresh your focus and motivation each and every day. You can work on your own, or with a coach. You can schedule a free consultation HERE. Or, if you are looking for one-time help with getting the ball rolling, that is available, too.

Hope you are having a great start to your new year!

Wishing you great health and happiness in 2024!

Every Day is a Fresh Start

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When life and our schedules begin to feel too busy or chaotic, I like to remind myself that every day is a fresh start.

No matter how many things didn’t go according to plan yesterday, or how some unforeseen circumstances got in your way and interrupted your best laid plans this week, every morning it’s like we get to hit the reset button and start again anew.

What will you choose to focus on today? What is important to you and how can you carve out even a small amount of time to contribute to your personal health and wellness? What is one thing you can set your mind to and commit to today?

Some days are already spoken for, and your schedule is completely booked. You may not have time to take that morning or evening walk. But even on those days, there are always small ways to can remember to do a little something for yourself, even if it’s just drinking your water, paying attention to your cravings that day and what is triggering them? Working on self-awareness and noticing what we are feeling that day, and how we are choosing to respond.

It’s ok to keep it simple. Set alarms on your phone a few times a day to remind yourself to drink a glass of water. Take a 5 min walk after you eat or when you feel the urge to snack but you know you’re not experiencing true physical hunger.

No matter how small, any decision you can make ahead of time and the practice of thinking ahead, knowing what your day is generally going to look like and where your biggest pitfalls might be, is often your greatest weight management skill.

Practicing identifying these pitfalls, taking a few moments to strategize, and practicing following through, is more important than calorie counting or the latest diet trend. When will I have time to eat lunch or how late will I be eating dinner? Will I be near healthier options as I’m driving home, or how can I be prepared to not let myself get overly hungry and throw in the towel?

Let’s take it one day at a time, and remember that every day offers a fresh start.

Karen

p.s. September is a great time to work on your goals. With the kids back in school, it’s a great time to get back to your healthy routines. The holidays are coming soon as well, and if you’re worried about going overboard during the holiday season, working on strategies now can be your greatest asset.

If you would like a free consultation, or someone to help you get started, or figure out why you aren’t getting results with your current routine, you can sign up HERE for a free call. I can help you.

What Mindset Has To Do with Eating Less

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If you are new to the world of incorporating mindset strategies into your general diet and lifestyle choices, then you must give this ‘brain hack’ a try.

One of the best ways to gain more control over cravings for unhealthy foods or mindless snacking is to practice the art of inserting a tiny pause before that gut reaction to reach for a snack takes over.

I can’t tell you how many times I have instinctively gone to the pantry or fridge when the first whisper of ‘hunger’ or a craving for sweets strikes. It’s usually at some random time of day, and I find myself moving in the direction of some chocolate or even a snack that might qualify as ‘healthy.’ This isn’t a problem by the way, until it’s a problem. By that I mean, are we taking the time to see if responding to that whisper is a good idea or even necessary?

When you start raising your awareness around what leads up to your choices, you can get a clearer picture of what is going on for you emotionally in that moment.

If you feel like you might be snacking too much, or you believe that you must snack between meals, ask yourself these four questions when the next urge strikes to go grab a snack:

1-How long has it been since I last ate? Should I actually be hungry now?
Most of us don’t stop to ponder if the urge to eat is legitimate hunger or not. If you ARE truly hungry, taking a moment to examine what you did eat at the last meal helps you see what foods have staying power and which ones don’t. This practice not only provides value in the moment, and potentially stops mindless eating, but it helps you make better choices at the next meal.

2-Could this be emotionally driven hunger?
Slowing things down for a moment will help you connect what you’re feeling in the moment, and why. Feeling hungry? Or, just stressed? Did you just go over all you have to do or your email inbox and are you feeling overwhelmed or short on time? Could it be related to something you saw on social media, a text you received, or walking past clutter you haven’t had time to address. When you are feeling some sort of negative emotion like stress, irritability, or maybe just plain boredom, the brain knows that a sweet treat will light up the reward centers of the brain and give us a quick hit of dopamine. This is not driven by true physical hunger, it’s just an urge to feel better in the moment. We have to get clear on the difference.

3- How much water have I had today?
It’s a shame that we SO often mistake thirst for hunger. Quick access to food (usually processed) is so abundant and available now, there’s not much to slow us down from grabbing a quick snack before we’ve even considered that it could be that we’re just thirsty. It didn’t used to be like that. Food used to require a lot more effort.

4- What do I REALLY need in this moment?
This is really the best question to ask when the first idea of food pops in your head, or before you reach for a treat from the candy bowl. Do I just need a break? Do I need to take a short walk to stretch my legs, get some fresh air, or take a few deep breaths?

When you become practiced at checking in with yourself before eating, and spend more time noticing how you are feeling before eating, you will start to gain more control and the skill of eliminating unconscious snacking.

Giving your insulin levels a chance to stay down between meals until true physical hunger arises sets you up for better metabolic health and insulin sensitivity over time.

Simple mindfulness practices like this one are the key to getting there.

How Vacations Can Actually Help You Lose Weight

When working with clients on weight loss strategies, it’s common for people to worry a little about their upcoming vacations. They sometimes fear that it’s inevitable that they will lose ground on the progress they’ve made. They might worry they will “go off the rails” or “ruin everything they’ve done.” It’s almost as if they feel they won’t be in control and will have no say in how things will go.

It may be true that you won’t have your predictable routines that you have at home, but I would like to offer you some evidence for believing otherwise. Here are some things I have noticed about my summer vacations that have helped me not only not gain weight on vacation, but often even lose a couple of pounds.

But before I go over those, I want to remind you, so what if you do gain a few pounds on vacation? Vacations are meant to be a break from the norm, a time to relax and enjoy all the experiences available to us. When you develop a healthy, sustainable approach to your everyday life at home, you don’t have to worry that a few vacation pounds will ruin ‘everything,’ and you won’t find yourself feeling like throwing in the towel and giving up. You’ll know that when you get home, you can easily return to the healthy lifestyle you have built and enjoy living. You won’t allow yourself to believe that all is lost.

So here is what I would offer that you notice about vacations and how things can actually HELP you in your weight loss journey.

1-Mindset
Notice that your mindset is different on vacation. Your thinking patterns are different when you are pulled out of your daily routine. Researchers often site that we typically repeat many of the same thoughts each day. It makes sense that as we go about our daily routines at home that we would be reminded of all that we have to do, or day to day worries and stressors in our lives.

On vacation though, we are in a completely new environment filled with new experiences. It is the refreshing break from the daily triggers that give us a chance to unwind and relax. Less stress means less stress hormones in our system (often cited as a contributor to weight gain), more happiness hormones, and better sleep.

2-Choices
Warmer weather can be responsible for lighter choices when it comes to foods and beverages. I have found the heat of the summer often causes me to choose a lighter alcoholic beverage, and I choose fish more often than not when I’m at the beach. Fresh local fish choices are everywhere at the coast, and I want to soak up all the fresh catch that I can. The heat of the summer usually encourages me to drink more water, too.

3-Movement
Vacationing somewhere beautiful with warmer weather encourages us to get out and explore whether walking or biking. We tend to park the car for the week and spend a lot more time outside. At large resorts, we always are surprised at how much walking is involved and how we get more exercise than we even realize. Longer, lazier days, and more sunlight mean it’s easier for us to find time to walk in the evening, even if it’s after getting an ice cream 😄.

So consider this change in perspective before you go on vacation, and remember that you don’t have to believe that it’s inevitable that vacations will sabotage your progress. Enjoy your vacation and if you need help developing healthy habits at home, I am just one click away.

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6 Weeks Until Summer 😎

The countdown has begun at our house!

In 6 short weeks, school will be out for the summer. We will be heading to the beach to soak up the sun and enjoy life at a slower pace.

While I look forward to the less structured days of summer, I also recognize that these next 6 weeks offer a strategic opportunity.

What do I want to accomplish before our daily routines get turned on their heads?

How could I look at these next 6 weeks as a time for me to address health goals, projects, or areas of my life that need attention while we are still in the midst of our predictable routines?

What is important to me that I would like to make progress on with greater attention and focus?

In addition to work and daily responsibilities of life, I look forward to the possibilities that the next few weeks hold. I hope you will, too.

If you could use a partner to help you revive those resolutions or get started on the path to forming better wellness routines, before the lazy days of summer set in, help is just a click away. Click HERE to explore the possibilities.

Where would you like to be in 6 weeks?

Whatever You Do, Don’t Do This

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As January comes to a close, how are you feeling about your personal goals? I hope the new year still feels shiny and new, and still ripe with possibilities.

Whether you are steadily making progress, or still getting your bearings, after a few days or weeks of new habits, it can get tiring.

But whatever you do (or don’t do), don’t give up on yourself.

Even if your plans haven’t really gotten off the ground, don’t give up.

Even if you made promises to yourself, but then completely ignored them, don’t give up.

If you’ve implemented some new habits, but don’t know if it’s really ‘working’, don’t give up.

You are the expert on your life, on your circumstances, and you know better than anyone what it’s going to take to make progress.

Noticing and being more mindful of the choices we make and why, is always where we begin, and IT COUNTS as progress.

Trying new things can keep it interesting if we get bored with the process.

For example, taking advantage of a free trial at several new gyms, or trying a form of exercise you’ve never done before. Walking new trails with a friend, or watching a new series while you’re on the treadmill, switching it up can make things feel lighter. Choosing a healthier meal at a new restaurant each week, the ones you always drive by, but don’t know much about.

Growth can be a little uncomfortable, but there are so many ways to make it more fun.

Just promise me you will keep going if there is a goal you really, really, want.

Let’s Eat, Drink, & Be Mindful

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As we attend our holiday parties in December, we can practice keeping a clear head about the holiday season.

A common thought we all are tempted to think with regard to taking better care of ourselves is, “I’ll start after the holidays”.

I love a fresh start as well, but what can you do now that’s easy?

Here are a few of my favorites:

Practice your appetite awareness. Try rating on a scale of 1-10 how hungry you are when offered food. Enjoy the tastes of all the different party foods then check in with yourself to notice when you’re satisfied. Beware of finishing the plate just because.

As far as simple strategies, good old standbys include eating something healthy with sustenance before a party, and remembering to hydrate at parties (an alarm on phone or wrist devices if you’re not in the habit helps).

Baking the yummy cookies and bagging them up to give away to friends so that we get to enjoy some of our favorites, but they don’t hang around for too long, is useful to me.

Also, at holiday meals, I like to think about what my favorite foods are that I look forward to all year, and really enjoy savoring those over others. There are usually some foods or sides that I just don’t care that much about, so I don’t have to worry about overdoing it as a whole.

Decide with intention how many days you want your leftovers from holiday meals and treats to spill over into, and then be done.

Let’s be honest, the holidays really aren’t the problem.

What we do day in and day out the rest of the year is where we can make the most improvements and progress, so enjoy those special holiday foods and gatherings!